Saturday, 2 February 2008

Help!!



This adorable, cute, cuddly, and very cheeky little boy has been talking again.
One of his favourite words to say (he doesn't have many just yet) is Bob, as in Bob the Builder. He could say Bob before, but this week he very clearly at times is also trying to say "Bob the Builder", and then "Yes we can!" It's cute. Everywhere he goes he tells us about the cars he sees, as CAR and BOB are the two totally clear words he uses all the time, closely followed by BALL and THROW (and he doesn't just like to throw balls - Peter will tell you that everything works well, including food!) Yesterday he was funny though. I don't know where he'd got it from - possibly Rebekah as I think she's done this a few times this week. Anyway he loves to climb, the higher the better. So he naturally doesn't like to stand on the floor or sit on chairs too often. They are fun too, but not as fun. Standing on top of the dining table is his favourite place to be. Yesterday he wanted to sit / lie / climb on the arms of our sofas. They join together in the corner, and he kept on lying along an arm, or sprawling across two arms, calling "Help!" By the evening, his help was pretty clear. Of course he could get down on his own, and Mummy played the game and got him back down onto the chair too a few times, but he climbed back up again, pretended to be stuck, and shouted for help once more! Typical cheeky little Peter - this game was too much like fun! :o) Rebekah when she does it likes to dangle backwards off a chair so that she's about to fall, and call for help. Ideally she'd like a friendly ambulance or fire engine to come along and help her, which occasionally it does. :o)




This was the first time he's worn these grown up pyjamas, so I just had to take a photo or two. He acts and looks a little bigger every day it seems. When we were walking home from the bus stop last week, we crossed the road, and were walking past the bus stop on the other side when Peter suddenly started to giggle as he ran off the path, through the bus shelter and towards the road! Michael was walking right behind him, but had to run after him to get to him before he got to the road. He's not fast yet but he's getting there.

He loves to tell us things, either signing, with real words, or in his own little language. For his first birthday we gave him a board book with lots of pictures of animals and their hand signs (British Sign Language), so as we read the book as well as learning the names of the animals he has learned some of the hand signs, which is an easier for him to show us what animal he means at times. The last two weeks we started playing a simplified version of the game Noah in family home evening. For those of you who don't know that game, one person is Noah, and every other person chooses to be a different animal. You choose a noise and an action for your animal. Then Noah starts by doing his sign and then one of an animal. That animal then does their sign (and noise) followed by someone else's. The idea is to keep it going quite quickly and then it's easy to get muddled up and do the wrong sign or noise here or there. Also when a person makes a mistake they move to the end of the line (of chairs ideally) and become the animal that WAS on that chair. Everyone else moves up one seat to fill the gap and becomes the animal who WAS on that chair! You can see how confusing it can quickly become! We're nowhere near that stage though - sitting in circle and staying as the same animal is enough for our younger ones for now. Anyway, the sign that we use for Noah is the sign for a man in BSL (which makes sense) so this week we figured we'd start using it as a game to practise and extend our signing. We choose an animal and the BSL hand sign for it (and look it up if we don't know what it is) and then just use the sign for the game, no noise. It would be a fun game to use with deaf people if sat in a circle so you can see each other. We're doing it silently (sort of!), which makes us pay close attention like we need to anyway with signing. We also get enough practise of the signs during the game to remember them in the future. It's a beginning! :o) What was quite cute was that Peter recognised the signs he knows and so did them along with us - just about every sign that was being made. He was stood in the middle of the circle making the signs along with us. It's fun to know that the signs mean something to him - they're not just doing something fun with your hands.



As for the girls, they've been singing, dancing and playing their music as they always love to do. They seemed to really enjoy their ballet and tap dancing today. Rachel must have enjoyed it as she also spent a good hour before tea gracefully dancing away to some other music, while Hannah went through some CDs and wrote herself a list of the songs that she likes. Rachel can't ever really stop herself from singing anyway, (or whistling if she's not allowed to sing anymore!) After we watched Mary Poppins after our Family Home Evening this week though they all have been singing those songs - and Rachel especially. They hadn't seen it before, and nor had Michael. I was excited because I quite clearly remember it being the first film I ever saw at the cinema. Mum and I snuck out after David went to bed. We were at my Granma's house at the time, and she looked after David while we were gone. I remember going upstairs as if to go to bed, and then being able to come back down and creep out once he'd gone to sleep or was well on his way. Then I had the choice of Annie or Mary Poppins when we got there. It was fun, and nice that I remember it so clearly. I was excited about it all the way through!



These pictures are of a cold afternoon they spent at the park this week with Michael and a friend of theirs. They ended up buiding these two fairy houses next door to each other. They spent more time on the first one making it pretty, building a wall, and putting in comfy moss carpets. They clearly enjoyed themselves. They could play like that all day if there was nothing to do, with whatever materials happen to be lying around. Lego is their standard material, though it's fun what you can make from natural materials.




I've spent most of today in my scruffy clothes painting doors and ceilings on the landing. Some of it needed doing anyway, and the rest was to cover up Rebekah's beautiful drawings that she will insist on decorating the house with. I'm not nearly as creative as my girls though.

This evening Rachel and I sat and watched President Hinckley's funeral (our current prophet) on the internet before she went to bed. We all watched some of it, but I knew the little ones wouldn't last long (good job we weren't watching it at church). It was really lovely.

Wednesday, 23 January 2008

Ten in a Bed

Well not quite, but it would only take having a few pets in the house to get us to that point I'm sure!

I managed to get up early again this morning. I went back upstairs at 6am as Peter was crying, having done a few things but not all that I'd wanted. He certainly wasn't ready to get up yet, so I shoved Sarah up a bit and got into our bed with him to feed him. Sometimes he'll go back to sleep for a bit (and as everyone had gone to bed a bit late last night I figured they could all do with just a bit longer this morning). He didn't go back to sleep in the end. Come 7 o'clock I was finally downstairs with him getting him dressed and making breakfast for him and all of the other sleeping bunnies in the house. For a while there it was a bit of a squash and a squeeze with 5 in a bed that can normally hold a maximum of 3 (when it has to!) I think we must have been too sleepy to do anything about it last night. I remember waking up at one point in the night to hear very deep breathing (coming from Michael) and very small breathing (coming from Sarah I thought - she normally the first to sneak in!) Then sometime later, Sarah climbed over me and snuggled down in between us, so it had actually been Rebekah with us all that time. My gratitude this morning is for the fact that Rachel and Hannah have long since got into the habit of sleeping happily throught the night, and Peter's mostly there too. Now we just need to wake up enough to remind Sarah and Rebekah where their beds are. :o)

Time for a change

We had a bit of a change at church this week - in terms of our bishopric that is. Our old bishop, Bishop Richard Hannis, had been a wonderful bishop but had been there for about 5 years I think and was ready to be released. The responsibility now falls upon our new bishop, Bishop David Mills! Debbie, I think you will remember his two counsellors, Daniel Top (1st counsellor) and Craig White (2nd counsellor). They'll do a great job I'm sure. My Dad took a few photos after they were set apart in the evening, and after Dad had ordained David to be a High Priest. They each received a lovely blessing. It was easy to see that David was the clear choice for the next bishop, but also to see how he and his family have been prepared in the last couple of years, and especially recently, for this calling. I mean in every way - spiritually, financially, with their home, transport needs met, Rachael and David's previous callings/jobs at church - how they have grown in them and learned from them, and even David's job. So even though it is a change to adjust to for them, I am sure they will do just fine. Actually, I was thinking the previous Sunday watching David at church as though he already acted like a bishop in his dealings with people - formally and informally. One of those preparations I guess. :o)



Our old and new bishop.
Maybe it was because of his tie!
















Our new bishopric, in height order!



















We had eaten as a whole family at David's house in the afternoon, and were heartily entertained by Sarah's latest party piece, her 'Granma laugh" as she calls it, which is very funny. Not after her Granma, but Angelina Ballerina's Granma apparently!

I also had the added bonus of having to travel with my parents to the setting apart, who were also attending an evening fireside (a meeting, not including a fire!) that the youth of the stake were putting on. That meant I had to go early to get to that too. I was delighted to find when we got there that it was a musical fireside, with a fantastic youth choir, and then various of the youth also reading various scriptures, quotes, and sharing their testimonies. It was lovely to hear their testimonies, and especially the music which I always love.

Tuesday, 15 January 2008

Our warm Christmas







Christmas for us this year ended up as a wrappedupwarminablanketstayingindoors type of Christmas. Some of us had just about shaken off our illnesses, whereas some were just getting them. So we stayed indoors and had a simple Christmas day (accompanied by our gifts from other people) and Boxing day at home (including gifts from each other). We had a candle-lit (and daylight-lit) cooked breakfast in the morning - plenty of yummy protein to help us get well! That was a treat. We also sort of saw Emma and Will and family by video conference over the internet later in the day. It was just as our Christmas dinner was ready, so we were pretty hungry this end, and struggling to see everyone because the picture quality coming in to us was pretty slow in coming. Something to work on in the future. Mostly the girls were a bit stuck for words as they couldn't see who they were talking to. Peter however waved happily whenever he heard anyone say "hello Peter", whether he could make out a person or not. Cute little boy. It was just a bit confusing this end is all. Still great to do though and we're very glad we did. It was interesting to see the girls get totally animated as they really enjoyed speaking with the same family members on the telephone several days later. I think they just didn't have anything in front of them to distract them that time. We'll have to see if there's anything we can do to improve that picture in the future.



Opening our gifts seemed for a while this year like it was going to be a bit disappointing, as it seemed to change the feeling we'd had all month as we focused on other people more than ourselves. Despite it being fun, we had really enjoyed the spirit of Christmas that came with all of the active and giving type of things we had involved ourselves in, and getting things for yourself just doesn't come close. I started to feel part way through that the children were starting to feel quite greedy and losing the enormous happiness they had enjoyed throughout the month, but it was nice to see that go in the end. We stopped after opening the gifts others had give them and saved ours for the next day. So instead of 'getting' more, they just spent some time enjoying what they had already been given, which was far more enjoyable. It was also nice to see that the gifts they valued were not expensive things. Sarah and Rebekah totally loved a little gift somebody gave them where you scratch at the surface to create a multi-coloured picture - it seemed to be their favourite. It made me kind of feel that I wished I hadn't spent anything on them ourselves but kept the money to go towards experiences for them - something I seem to recall considering for birthdays in the past. They received plenty, they enjoyed it all, and some gifts were things they had hoped for, longed for, and even needed, plus toys that will get an enormous amount of continued use, but the most memorable parts for all of us really are the things we enjoyed DOING together and with others. We'll see how simple we manage to keep Christmas next year! :o)







Our traditional acting out the nativity (that we ALWAYS do on Christmas day before we open any gifts) hasn't happened yet - we just weren't well enough for it not to be a chore instead of something special. This year we read the Christmas story together first instead, which I think normally happens on Christmas Eve in our house. Yes I did say "yet". Our Christmas decorations are still up for Michael's birthday (tomorrow - I may actually post this just in time!) as he likes to do. His gifts are waiting under the Christmas tree, and we'll enjoy the tree lights one more time tomorrow if I remenber to put them on! It makes the house a bit more festive really. I hadn't planned to this year - it was all going to come down along with most other people's decorations to get our house sorted before getting a few DIY jobs done, but we got ill again after Christmas too (maybe from going out in the cold too soon over Christmas?), so why not. I nearly took some down on Friday just to get the place sorted, but resisted in the end. So anyway, with decorations still up, everyone's lovely cards included, we may actually have a bit of time acting out the nativity with some friends this week. It seemed a bit strange to leave it this late, but 3 out of 4 girls are very eager to do it, and it'll be a fun thing to do anyway - they love getting dressed up and acting things out. I guess Daddy will be the donkey again, and maybe the camel (only one camel in our little production I'm afraid). Last year he looked particularly interesting as the donkey with some super ears I think he'd made from a pair of socks. :o)

It was fun to have Nanny come and stay with us for a couple of days after Boxing day, and was great for us not to have to brave the cold just yet, but continue to get well instead. It was just the extra bit of time we needed. We had our pyjama party with Nanny as planned, and the next day Nanny enjoyed some grandchildren time, and the children enjoyed some Nanny time, while Michael and I enjoyed some getting "the little room" sorted time on our own for a few hours. By the evening, the little room had finally changed into Peter's room, and he happily spent his first night sleeping in there. I'm pleased to report as well that in the last week he has had one night where he stayed asleep in there until 6.30 am (amazing) followed soon after by a couple of nights where I actually woke up and got ready the next morning before he even woke up once (I wasn't up early either). So he seems to be enjoying his sleep as much as we are enjoying ours (when Sarah and Rebekah let us). Since we got back home after Christmas they have made a renewed attempt to climb into our bed through the night, or get us up with one problem after another. Peter's sleeping well anyway!



We were really glad that Tom could come over the next day (on the Saturday). When we were finally packed up and ready to go, we went for a game of bowling with him and Nanny. We all enjoyed that. Rachel and Hannah bowled without the use of the ramp for the first time, and Peter was so excited by these fun balls that he was just desperate to pick them up and have a go too. So he shared a few goes with me. He 'helped' me to pick the ball up (ball in my right hand, Peter in my left arm) and gave it a big hug before I bowled it down the alley. With Peter's giggly magic helping we actually got a strike and a couple of spares among the usual rolling into the gutter before reaching the end! The girls of course did much better than their Mum. They had the barriers up on their lane and Sarah and Rebekah used a ramp to roll the balls. Peter did try that once - very excitedly! Rachel and Hannah soon got the hang of it and Rachel scored in the high 90s, with Hannah reaching 101. Yay! The children really enjoyed that. I think the last time we'd been was about 18 months before, when I was expecting Peter and had to use the ramp along with the children!
When we were done, Nanny and Tom between them drove us to Kidderminster (them to go home, us to go and stay with Granma and Gramps).
































It was really nice for the children to go to Primary together in Kidderminster on the Sunday. Rebekah stayed in Primary for the whole time, as a build up to going properly into Primary in Coventry the following week (the children's classes and activities at church). We had a lovely meal and some altogether time at Nanny's house after church too, which was nice.





















































































































Then before bed that night we shared Christmas gifts with Granma and Gramps and they with us. There were some squeals of delight at receiving more wooden train track to allow their creations go a bit further, and everyone suddenly turned stripey. Don't they look beautiful, as well as snuggly warm? :o)























On Monday we went to Bridgnorth for an outing in both Granma and Gramps' cars. It was the first time we have been able to walk around a town (rather than a wood, country park, etc.) without our girls minding. It must have been the novelty of being there with their grandparents I think. They certainly enjoyed themselves, as did we all. We enjoyed our trip down to the lower town in the funicular railway, and racing Daddy back up again. They thought he was mad to climb up all of those steep steps, but he won, even if he did look like he was going to fall over from doing it! He enjoyed the little challenge - couldn't pass it up. :o) It's a lovely town that looks like it should be beside the sea somewhere - fun to walk around.



















































































































That night after tea was another pyjama party, complete with popcorn and fruit. We had a lot of fun watching Bob the Builder this time! We thought Peter would enjoy this one along with us and we were right. As soon as he was finished with his popcorn and grapes, he was up and dancing to every little snippet of music he heard. That was as much fun to watch as the video itself! He has a knack of reacting to music (even in his sleep) by spontaneously conducting it or dancing to it. I guess he hears enough music through the day, as he also has the same ability that Sarah and Rachel have always had to sing things perfectly. He likes to play that game with noises of course, but also if we sing something to him he sings it right back pitch-perfect. It makes for a fun game to play with him sometimes.



































On Tuesday, Granma seemed to have caught a chill and needed to stay indoors so she didn't get really ill before going back to work the next day. She helped us get to Hurcott Pools though, another place we had never been to, where we went for a lovely fresh walk with Gramps and Louise (a friend of mine from school). The girls pretty much clung to Louise. We hardly ever get to see her, but they enjoy her company so much when we do. Hannah (who was named after Louise) was by her side the whole time. Sarah was our guide for the journey, and always knew which way would be the most fun and adventurous. Can you see the picture with us trying to choose which way to go (all pointing in different directions)? Guess who got to choose! When Gramps asked her to show him which way she thought we should go, she didn't bother with pointing, she just zoomed off in that direction, and we had to follow. :o) She also made the most fantastic dog alarm - having bounded off ahead, she would frantically come running back if there ever was one in sight. We saw quite a few dogs as well enjoying a new year's day walk themselves. Not your ordinary dogs, but Red Setters, an Old English sheepdog, huskies (or similar) and the like. Hurcott Pools is obviously THE place to walk your dog! Meanwhile Peter discovered a fun game where Mummy and Daddy said "1..,2..,3..,GO!" and swung him through the air. It was too much fun to miss again, so in the best way he could he kept on and on saying "uh..,uh..,uh..,OH!" and off he would swing again. That game lasted quite a while.













































We were grateful for Gramps offering to give us a lift back home to Coventry on Thursday. Only Peter and I took advantage of that offer, along with our luggage. That made it far less of a treck to get everyone else back home on the train - they were so looking forward to their journey on the train that they couldn't not do it, freezing as it was, and it didn't make sense for Gramps to make two journeys anyway.

Chaos has reigned a little as we've settled back down and battled winter illnesses a bit more since then. Rachel and Hannah have been making good use of their new recorders, and are eager to practise each day - that and the piano mostly, and we are back to our normal adventures.

That's it for now - it's birthday time tomorrow!