Valentine's Day in Brighton

Well our Valentine's day was very much a family day. Michael and I did get some time together in the evening, which we had been planning on, but Sunday lessons had to come first and it didn't happen until it was very late and we have suffered today as a result of going to bed extremely late, or you might say early. Michael has been asleep now for nearly two hours so should hopefully be back to normal in the morning!

We didn't do much of making Valentines cards this year. I'm trying to do the things that are most needed unless there is time and energy to do more. Rebekah chose to make a card for Sarah, which just did wonders for Sarah, and you could see how much joy Rebekah got from doing that too. Peter knew who he wanted to make cards for and stuck at it until he had made one for each individual that he knows and is special to him personally. He wanted to do every little bit himself. Then he was so pleased to post them and took such great care over doing so, each envelope in the postbox one at a time, the right way up, knowing whose he was posting.

I had made a card for each child the night before, and it meant a lot to them. Michael gave them each a couple of red roses in the morning - all but Peter appreciated that thought (he didn't want his!) He kept coming back to his card through the day though and opening it as though reading it and saying "I love you", "I love you Mum", "I love you Dad" and variations on that. He got what we were saying to him. Words always mean more to him than anything else. It's so interesting that he is hurt so easily by thoughtless words, and strengthened and feels loved so much by kind, caring and loving words. It's definitely one of his love languages.



Michael and I enjoyed a bit of time last Sunday evening after we had been making cards for our Family Home Evening activity, and neither of us had had a chance to do so from ourselves. So we sat opposite each other at the dining table, with all of my special materials out that the children had been delighted to be able to use, and with a low barrier in between us so we couldn't see what the other was doing, we chatted for some time while making each others' cards. It was fun to see yesterday morning how similarly they had turned out!



Well in the afternoon, having spent the morning doing some tidying up, food preparation, etc., we all went out to a couple of different places. It was time to enjoy the childrens' Christmas present from Nanny. I had seen that Swan Lake would be on at one of the theatres in Brighton, and as the older girls had really wanted to see it sometime, and we knew we could never afford to do it ourselves, we surprised them by spending Nanny's Christmas money on tickets to go and see it - the matinee on Valentine's Day. The seats we managed to get were in the top balcony, as I had been delayed in buying them until after getting over the worst of the flu around Christmas time. The cheaper seats did allow them to have a program each as well though.

I have not been in a theatre before that was so compact! It goes up rather than back and so each balcony is very steep, and quickly becomes very high. You might be able to see from the pictures I took after the performance quite how high we were, although the light wasn't great. I was scared in moving around it was all so steep! We were level with the chandelier on the ceiling, and the ceiling then sloped up more from where we were so the rows behind us could see properly too. The main disadvantage of being high up was that as the ballet progressed it got hotter and hotter in there, and the heat just rose to where we were! Hannah and I seemed to suffer with that the most. Having cushions round their feet (that we didn't need in the end because of how steep it was) I think added to the problem a bit too! We know what's it's like for future though and plan to go for the royal circle if we get to go there again to see anything.





It was still a lovely experience, which is the best kind of gift. Sarah sat by me and was turning to me almost constantly with bright shining eyes and a huge smile. Lots of questions to begin with too, so that she properly knew who was who. We read about the different scenes in the interval though and then she understood better. I cried at the end - I found it such a sad and moving story! The girls thought I was funny for that. :o) Rachel was clearly over the moon too. It was just great to watch such fantastic dancers (a Russian ballet company) and the costumes were fantastic too. Hannah did enjoy it too, but was clearly feeling too physically down to feel so by the end. She looked very different during the first act, and was just as captivated as we were. She feels she has had enough now of theatres/ballet though, and is 100% turning her attention to her love of horses and horse riding, and is saving every penny she gets to be able to have horse riding lessons as soon as she has enough. It is likely to take quite a while, but she is certain that all she wants for her birthday is money towards it - every penny gets her nearer to her dream. :o)

This picture is taken just inside the entrance to the gardens in the Brighton Dome which is a very Indian looking building right in the middle of Brighton. We had a little wait before Michael came to pick us up, so popped in there to see what it was like.



Rebekah and Peter meanwhile, ably assisted by Michael, enjoyed a part of their Christmas present from Nanny - a visit to a ball pit/soft play place (Rebekah's choice) while their sisters did more grown-up things! That's something else that money doesn't stretch to, so is a big deal to them. We found what turned out to be a really nice one in Lewes that they spent a good hour and a half playing at with Daddy before coming to pick us up again. Michael wished he'd had the camera with him as he could have taken some great pictures, but I had it with me so no such luck. Peter warmed to it in the end and didn't want Michael's help after that, although it was big enough on all levels for Michael to do everything with him. We didn't have a problem for once with him getting in the car to go to church this morning - apparently he thought he was going back to the ball pit!